Only when someone feels safe enough with me to share their fears and self-relfection then will I feel comfortable enough to share mine. As a fellow outgoing individual who is typically unafraid to share my emotions and frustrations, I have realized that only when a certain friend has confided in me, then those dark memories and unpleasant personality traits are given a name and can be brought to daylight. As unpleasant as it is to do this dissection of oneself, these are the things that open us to discover more and help us to change the things we wish to change and accept the things we wish to accept.